In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not. – A. Einstein.
In most cases, a difference between theory and practice is being ignored. Sometimes even, the facts are blamed. Or we could revise the theory and run into another Einstein quote:
Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius (and a lot of courage) to move in the opposite direction.
In facilitation we do have theories. They can also be called methods or techniques. They lead to results. In practice, however, an actual situation may require another theory-in-use. As we do not seem to reach the intended result. You may blame it on resistance, unwillingness, whatever. You may try to apply more energy, more of the same. Won’t work. One needs a practice and to practice the practice. In communicating about this, one talks about a “meta-practice”. The meta-practice I espouse, looks like a theory, feels like a theory, but isn’t a theory. It is about being aware of your practice while practicing, facilitate yourself, while facilitating. How does this work? Only in practice!